What does a wedding day coordinator actually do?
Planning a wedding is like juggling confetti, family politics, logistics, and Pinterest boards—while also trying to remember to eat. And while loads of couples enjoy the planning bit, the actual running of the day? That’s a different beast entirely.
That’s where a wedding day coordinator comes in. We’re not full-service planners (you’ve got your vision nailed!), but we are your behind-the-scenes safety net to make sure it all actually happens the way you imagined. We take over the reins in the final weeks and on the big day itself, keeping everything running smoothly so you don’t have to lift a finger.
What we actually do
In short: we’re the calm in the chaos. We step in a few weeks before the wedding to get to know your plans, timeline, suppliers, venue quirks and any family dynamics you want us to be aware of (yes, we can steer Uncle Steve away from the mic).
Here’s what’s included:
Final timeline creation and checks
Communication with all suppliers so everyone’s on the same page
Coordinating set-up on the day (tables, chairs, signage, decor – we’ve got it)
Solving last-minute hiccups like the missing cake or a rain plan emergency
Keeping the day running to time
Being the point of contact for everything so you’re not bothered by questions
Looking after you and making sure you actually eat something
We’re not just clipboard-holders.
We’re also venue stylists, people wranglers, problem-solvers, speech-timers, lipstick finders, bouquet fluffers, and general calm-energy-givers. We bring plasters, glue guns, scissors, snacks, bobby pins, and moral support.
We’re the ones who’ll catch the moment your flowers arrive without water. The ones who notice the mic isn’t turned on before the speeches. The ones who hand your mum a tissue when she’s holding back tears and trying not to smudge her mascara.
Why does it matter?
Because you’ve spent so much time making this day beautiful. You deserve to actually experience it without worrying about where the musicians are or whether the favours have been laid out. Your mum deserves to enjoy it. Your best mate shouldn’t be stuck coordinating the caterers.
Without a coordinator, these jobs fall to your family, your mates—or worse, to you. And we want you dancing with a cocktail, not chasing a supplier down over timings.
What’s the difference between venue coordinators and wedding day coordinators?
Great question. A venue coordinator works for the venue. They’ll make sure the bar is stocked and the lights are on. But they won’t necessarily know where your welcome sign goes, who’s bringing the cake, or what time your confetti shot is happening.
A wedding day coordinator works for you. We know your priorities, your suppliers, and your plan—and we make sure it’s all executed exactly how you imagined (or better). We’re there start to finish, from morning prep to packing the car.
Who’s it for?
Literally every couple who’s planned their own wedding and wants to hand over the clipboard and just be present. Whether you’ve had a full DIY venue, a marquee, a barn wedding or anything in between—if there’s no one designated to run the day, we’ve got you.
We’re also a dream for people who hate asking friends for help, want a stress-free morning, or just want someone on hand who knows what they’re doing when things don’t quite go to plan.
Real wedding moment: Fixing the band blackout
We once coordinated a barn wedding where the electrics cut out during the band’s first song. Instant panic. But not for the couple—they were mid-dance, none the wiser. We liaised with the band, worked with the venue, tested a backup circuit, and had it sorted before the second track. That’s the magic of a coordinator—you only see the party. We handle the rest.
So… do you need one?
Look, you can run your own wedding day. But should you?
If you want to:
actually enjoy your day
not be pestered with questions
avoid last-minute stress
and have someone else handle logistics
Then yes, a wedding day coordinator is 100% worth it. (And bonus—we’re really fun to have around.)
If this sounds like your kind of support, check out our Day Elements service. We’d love to help bring your day together and keep it totally stress-free.